What Do Men Really Want?

What Do Men Really Want?

The key qualities men look for in a potential partner

When it comes to trying to guess what is on a man’s mind and what will make him happy, climbing Mount Everest would seem like a less impossible task. Most women are simply mystified when it comes to pinpointing what a guy is looking for in a partner and most would mistakenly believe that physical appearance is top on the must-have list. Although attraction is clearly important, there are other things that a guy would rate more highly than this when deciding whether a woman is right for him. We look at some of these crucial attributes below.

1. Intelligence

Legend has it that men aren’t supposed to like intelligent women; they make them feel stupid right? Wrong! Recent studies have shown that brains are actually valued above beauty and men are more impressed by a woman who can hold her own in a serious conversation. That doesn’t mean you have to be a University graduate, just make sure you read a lot and keep on top of current affairs. Attending evening classes or reading groups can broaden your horizons and actually put you in a position to meet more interesting guys.

2. Kindness

Quite frankly there just isn’t enough of this around these days and everybody wants a slice of the pie. Bossy women who don’t think before they speak and who are inconsiderate towards a guys feelings are definitely a huge turn-off. Men like woman who show empathy, not only towards them but others as well. It is not necessary to reach the standards of Mother Teresa; simply realising the impact that your actions can have on somebody else and acting accordingly can be a huge step. But no pushovers please; somebody who lets other people walk all over her is bound to get irritating after a while.

3. Mystery & Intrigue

Men get bored easily. We all do when it comes down to it, so there is nothing quite as exciting as a woman who keeps a man guessing and is always one step ahead of him. This is definitely something that you will have to work very hard at as there are no short-cuts and the best advice that can be given as to how to achieve this is to always try new things and be open to opportunities. Take an interest in his hobbies just so you keep on top of what is going on in his world but have your own interests too and always make time for your circle of friends rather than letting your entire life revolve around him.

4. Honesty & Loyalty

Honesty means a lot more than just not lying, it is more of a case of actively being truthful especially where feelings regarding the relationship are concerned. Women who play games can make very confusing partners and it makes it very difficult to know where you are with such a person. So let your man know that you want him and stand by him come what may and you should have no trouble surviving any storm that comes your way.

5. Good Looks

This isn’t just about sex appeal or beauty in the traditional sense. How attractive a guy finds a girl depends a lot on how much he perceives her to take care of herself. A woman who is always well-groomed and makes an effort to keep herself looking and feeling healthy is highly valued by men for two main reasons. Firstly, by making an effort, you give him the unspoken message that you think he is worth it (even if you aren’t doing it entirely for him). Secondly, on a deeper subconscious level, guys relate self-care to having the ability to care for them or for any children you may have. Even if you are so far off from thinking about anything like that at the moment, Caveman instincts are always bubbling beneath the surface.

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